Like Kate Spade, but better...

I've noticed a lot of things have become customary that weren't customary before. One such thing is the giving of bags of goodies to the bridesmaids. What used to be a necklace or key ring is now a tote bag filled with cosmetics, snacks, and personal items. AND, if you're really on top of your game, each tote bag will be personalized with the bridesmaid's name stitched across the top.

Don't hold your breath, bridal party. As half of you are dudes and the other half are not in need of personalized totes, you won't be getting any such party favors from this bride. I actually really like the idea, but these extras aren't that budget friendly and I'd rather give you something more personal than a personalized tote, if I have to choose between them.

But if I was to give out bags...(enter fantasy bridal lala land here)...

I would totally go with bags from Snaptotes, a company that is both clever and out of my budget. They've taken personalized bags to a whole other level by creating customized bags in a ton of shapes and sizes and actually letting people put their personal pictures on them. They don't only have handbags, either. They carry totes, purses, messenger bags, men's bags, art, and all sorts of goodies. I love the idea for professional photographers and artists, or for really snobby soccer moms who can't get enough of their smudge-faced cherubs. Check it out:














I completely love these bags. If they were free (or 5 bucks each, even) I would give everyone a little clutch with my grandmother's wedding picture on it. I was actually thinking of getting myself a little purse for the wedding day, but my mom made me one with hidden mickeys all over it and a bride really only needs one bag at a time. I'd take on on my honeymoon, but we already bought a diaper bag to handle all of our touristness. So, the only reason to buy one of these bags is good old indulgence. Unfortunately, you really pay for what you get and Snaptotes easily run up into three figures. Perfect for the super proud grandma, but not so perfect when you want to buy a bunch of them. C'est la vie.